Wait for it…
Yes, I know it’s been a long time since I wrote anything. Well it looks like I should start up again, so here goes.
A friend who has a podcast talked about friends who ever call. And I started to think about this because this is one of my biggest problems. No, I’m not the one waiting for someone who never calls, I’m the one who never calls. And I got to say that it’s been that why for me since I could remember.
Now days I have tried to be the point of contact, but it isn’t my thing. I don’t know why I just don’t like talking on the phone that much. Now I guess it all depends on who I’m talking to, like my wife or kids. I don’t go out of my why to not talk to my friend, the few I have, I just have a hard time picking up the phone and calling them.
I’m write this post on calling people because I have found myself in the same spot. I guess what goes around comes around. I have someone who I would call my friend. And of late, it seems like I’m the only one calling. So for the next few weeks I’m going to not call just to see if they call me. I think they will not. I think this because things between us have changed. How? Don’t know. They act like something is wrong any time I see them. (I say “they” us I don’t want to say he or she. ) I have asked if everything is OK, and they say fine. I know it not. Oh well, if there is a problem and they can’t talk to me about it, then there’s not much I can do. So the waiting game starts now.
If things change, I will update this post, if only for me. See you later as I will not be calling.